Chore
Chart
Many children are visual learners and they enjoy seeing decorative
pictures, art and even charts. Children are more likely to get their
daily household duties done if they have a chore chart to reference
each day. The work is not necessarily the problem with kids. In most
cases, the kids are just not motivated enough to complete tasks on
their own. A chore chart can help a child get motivated enough to do
his or her work every day.
The chore chart needs to be age appropriate. Your teenage son is not
going to be motivated with a “Good Job” sticker
chart and stars just won’t do the trick. However, a visual
schedule that eventually leads to a significant reward will. The reward
does have to be significant. A treat will not do the trick. Teenagers
usually prefer cash.
Many may argue that this teaches the adolescent to expect rewards every
time he does what he is supposed to do, but it really does not. The
chore chart functions like a work schedule. If all of the work is
completed, the adolescent receives a kind of paycheck. This system
teaches a work ethic that mimics the actual working world. It also
teaches delayed gratification. The adolescent is not rewarded
immediately.
Younger children are much easier to please. Some young children find
the chart itself to be rewarding. They like getting undivided attention
and praise from their parents. Add stickers to the activity and you
have a child who will jump through hoops for the little rewards. The
process also will be a reward in itself because most children want
nothing more than to spend time with their parents.
This does not happen all at once. For some children, it is necessary to
have tangible rewards associated with the chore chart. When you
introduce they system, make sure to praise and provide a treat
immediately after the child completes the task. The treats can be
gradually faded as the child better understands the chore chart and how
it functions.
Let’s not forget the adults. I created a chore chart for
myself to help me manage my time. It is easy to get behind on household
chores when you create your own schedule. Absent-minded people like me
benefit from a chore chart to help us organize our time. I even include
the tangible rewards, like a glass of wine or a new piece of jewelry.
I’m still a kid at heart after all.
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