Clutter
Removal
Clutter removal is a prickly journey for many people. Some people never
do it, and the clutter sits idle under layers of cobwebs. Some people
do it intermittently, and alternate between having a home that is a
shambles, and a home that is a pristine palace. Some people hire an
assistant to help, such as a professional organizer. And some brave
souls tackle it alone.
If you are going to organize your home alone, there certain things you
should remember to help make the process more palatable.
The first step is to be prepared for all your "stuff" to come up as you
start to look at your "stuff." In other words, as you attempt to
organize your garage, closet or whatever, this action is going to
trigger emotional responses in you. This is fine. It means you are on
the right track! It means you have finally taken some positive action
and you have just stirred up the pot a bit. Go easy on yourself.
The next step is to focus on getting rid of things. Do not worry much
at all about proper placement until you have finished, or nearly
finished the "letting go" process. Letting cannot be emphasized enough.
So, begin by making piles: The give away pile, the toss pile, the
sentimental pile, and the practical pile. Just to name a few. But focus
largely on the toss pile as you first begin to organize your home.
This is your most important pile to create, and it is usually the
hardest. But it has to be done! Why waste time organizing things that
you no longer really want? Let things go first. This is the rule to
live by.
How do you let things go? It is not easy, especially if you are
tackling clutter removal on your own keepsake items. You do it slowly.
You do it honestly. For every single item you touch, ask: Do I really
need to keep this item? Is it bringing me pleasure? Is it practical?
Will it honestly bring me pleasure in the future at some point?
Ask and be real. There is probably a lot you can let go of that will
never (and has never) truly brought you much pleasure. Be willing to
let it all go.
After letting as much go as you can, the next step for effective
clutter removal is to realize that things must first get messy before
they get neat.
Things must first get messy before they get neat. Use this as your
mantra. Say it to yourself often. It will ease the process.
Then, go back to your piles. (At this point, you should have already
made a trip to Goodwill or to the dump, and your letting ago is over
with.) You are down to what you truly want to keep.
The next step is to become self-reflective. How do you live your life?
What do you use on a daily basis? Your answers will determine the
placement of your items. Knowing really well how often you need
something and its place in your life is the key to clutter removal.
So, go slowly. Move one item only once if possible, but do it
purposely. Stay focused. Stay alert. You organize your home
one piece at a time. There is no other way. Think in bite size pieces
and you will make this process much easier. Who knows? You might even
grow to enjoy it!
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